Our old(est) suburban was purchased in 1994, which seems like a long time ago until you consider this particular vehicle was a 1977. Yep, complete with the two-tone orange/beige paint job—it was known as “the rolling pumpkin” at the mechanic shop. No computer, no electric windows, and someone even had enough sense of humor to install glass packs. Man, you could hear me coming down a hill from a mile away! It idled so loudly that one morning the sonic waves set of the alarm on the fancy car next to it in the high school parking lot. Continue reading
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My grandfather used to raise hogs. I remember as a kid how grandma would have the runts up at the house trying to feed them in the off-change they might decide to live. And to this little girl, they were sooOOO000ooo adorable! I was such an animal lover, and I would naturally end up naming them, like Sylvester Pigsley.
Then one of them would succumb and grandma would just as naturally heave it over the fence. (Can’t remember if it was Sylvester or not, but it was quite the education for a young suburbanite…)
I have also since learned that pigs are not overly discriminating with their dietary preferences; neither is keeping their personal space clean a high priority, thus our comments to the teenager’s room looking like “a pig-sty”.
Okay, I’m still a suburbanite, but to this day I think a pig’s reputation gets a bit of a bum rap. I’m told they are actually one of the more intelligent barnyard animals, rolling around in mud and eating slop notwithstanding. All that intelligence is just hidden under gross and grunts.
Interestingly, the opposite is true with Solomon’s comparison.:
A beautiful woman who lacks discretion
is like a gold ring in a pig’s snout.
In this example, we have all the beautiful trappings on the outside hiding what’s really within. Now, here’s a guy with more than a little experience—something like 700 wives and 300 pseudo-wives. I’m sure he had his share of less-than-discreet, (not to mention the hormonal drama…gag!) Plus, consider that being in such a position of social and political power put him at higher risk when it came to the consequences of indiscretion.
Because it wasn’t merely about what she wore (or didn’t wear), but also about how she saw herself in relation to those around her. A woman of true discretion knows that she has a “hidden congregation”, areas of influence, some of which she is aware, and some not. By inference, this means people are watching and listening,…and learning.
It also means that her decisions, her responses, her words, are a reflection on those who are dear to her, to their reputations as well. How does what I say and do honor my husband and children, my parents, other Christians, and more importantly, my Lord?
Once again, as usual, it’s not just about me. I may not be a king’s wife, but I am a King’s daughter. (And with or without the gold ring of beauty, I have a crown.)
Proverbs 11:22 Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996, 2004, 2015 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
Buckley and I enjoy terrain hiking in a tiny semi-secluded patch of the planet belonging to the college where my husband works. It’s private land, so I’m thinking the town’s leash laws are not in effect. It’s also one of the few places I can let him range, and he loves it!
So do I. Not only for myself, but I get such a kick out of watching him enjoy the freedom, and I marvel at the sure-footedness of this rescue pound-puppy of ours. Not that I can say that about myself, mind you. No, this one carries a walking stick, wears special insoles in trail running shoes (in which I walk, not run), and even then I have to pick carefully through leaves and creek beds, using that opposable thumb to grab and hoist myself up the hills.
Buckley, the barefoot creature without the opposable thumb? Right. He leaves me in the dust.
I have to be especially attentive when crossing a brook. Picking my way safely can be challenging (it’s part of the fun), and watching for slippery moss on the rocks is imperative. If I’m not careful, I’m all wet.
Hold that thought for a sec.
Proverbs chapter ten is largely concerned with my words, which is a pretty good indicator of what’s in my heart. Here is a running commentary contrasting the attitude (as shown by their words) of the wise person versus the fool. Just a sampling—
The wise are glad to be instructed,
but babbling fools fall flat on their faces…
People with integrity walk safely,…
This isn’t just an observation, (Solomon was quite good at that), but more importantly, a warning. It’s easy to be drawn into a foolish argument; that is, an argument that is void of the primary foundation of wisdom—
“Fear of the Lord is the foundation of wisdom.
Knowledge of the Holy One results in good judgment.”
Without this, the encounter can become slippery at best, treacherous at worst, causing confusion, rancor, and division (to name a few.)
Here’s another comparison—
The words of the godly are a life-giving fountain;
…but the babbling of a fool invites disaster.
Are my words giving life? Or are my words making safe passage unattainable?
Or is it a discussion I should even enter into at this place?
When one of these conversations presents itself, the godly participant does well to stand on the shore and survey how to get across safely to the other side.
Otherwise, you’re all wet.
Proverbs 10:8,9,11,14; 9:10 Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996, 2004, 2015 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
I was set up from everlasting, from the beginning, or ever the earth was. – Proverbs 8:23
Before we leave Proverbs chapter 8, I want us to notice one of the most glorious truths displayed in all of Scripture: the eternality of Jesus Christ.
Notice in verses 22-31 that at least six different times Wisdom is mentioned as having been with God from before the foundation of the earth. Carefully read through these verses in Proverbs while you consider the following:
- In John 1:1-2 Jesus is called the Word of God who was with God and was God.
- In John 8:58 Jesus said, “Before Abraham was, I am.”
- In John 17:24 we read where Jesus was praying to the Father and said: “My glory, which thou hast given me: for thou lovedst me before the foundation of the world.”
- Speaking of the coming Messiah, Isaiah 9:6 calls Him “the Everlasting.”
- Micah 5:2, also speaking of the coming Messiah, said: “His goings forth have been from old, from everlasting.”
- In Hebrews 13:8 we read that Jesus Christ is “the same yesterday, and today, and forever.”
- In Revelation 1:11 Jesus says of Himself, “I am the Alpha and the Omega, the first and the last…”
- And if it was ever a question that Jesus claimed to be God, when you compare John 8:58 and Revelation 1:11 to Isaiah 48:12, then there should be no doubt: “I am he; I am the first, I also am the last.”
Make no mistake, the parallels are too similar to deny…Jesus, the Power and Wisdom of God (1 Corinthians 1:24), is being prophetically referenced here in this chapter. As the Holy Spirit moved through the prophet David, Solomon’s father, to write Psalm 22 in anticipation of the crucifixion, so does He move through Solomon to describe the glorious, eternal nature of the Messiah, Jesus.
But there’s one more thing I want you to see… His delights are with the sons of men (Proverbs 8:31).
The Word of God made flesh…the Wisdom of God who was there before the foundation of the world…the Savior who came and dwelt among us (Emmanuel – see Isaiah 7:14 and Matthew 1:23)…
He delights to be with you and me! He literally wants to spend time with us because he loves and cares for us.
Therefore, considering what we’ve read, we should all the more take seriously the closing verse in this chapter.
But he that sinneth against me wrongeth his own soul: all they that hate me love death. – Proverbs 8:36
To seek Wisdom is a choice, but failing to do so can have eternal ramifications.
Today I decided to post a rerun from 2012. I couldn’t say it any better if I re-wrote it today.
“So she caught him, and kissed him, and with an impudent face said unto him, I have peace offerings with me; this day have I payed my vows. Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee.”
One of the greatest myths is that all church-going girls are “good” girls. These verses are a good example. Not only has this woman been waiting in the dark for her prey, she is openly religious, and uses her surface piety to lure the fool. But let’s break down these verses one at a time.
“So she caught him, and kissed him..”
Look who is the aggressor; it’s not the man. Conventional wisdom (not godly wisdom) has taught us that men are always the aggressor and that women should be wary. However, there are plenty of young women, as young as middle school, who know exactly what they want, and how to get it. Consider the words of this mother…
“I have a very outgoing, charming, attractive 15-year-old son. I have literally been chasing the girls away from the door ever since the seventh grade. … The aggressiveness and promiscuity of young girls nowadays is beyond words. Their dress is so alluring and inviting to a young man, what’s a guy to do? Moreover, what’s a mom to do?” (source, Family Life Today)
It is amazing how people can look you right in the eye and tell a bold-face lie. That is what this woman was doing. The Hebrew word translated here as “impudent” could also be translated as brazen. She just looked this naive boy in the face and told him what he wanted to hear.
“Peace offerings…vows…found thee.”
It is obvious in verses 14 and 15 that something doesn’t add up. Why is it that a woman of the night would be telling this young man about how she went to church? Oh, it’s pretty simple, really. She was just saying what a good Jewish boy wanted to hear.
Here was the total, irresistible package: a young, gorgeous and religious woman calling out to be rescued from breaking the Law. “I am so glad I found you! You’re the answer to my prayers! This must be God’s will,” she essentially said.
In the Old Testament, when a peace offering was made, the leftover meat was to be eaten that night, and no later (Lev. 7:15). She presented her case in such a way that said, “We have to do this now!” She played to his religious chivalry.
When this woman grabbed the man, kissed him, lied to him, and trapped him, she did it with everything that said: “This must be a good girl – she’s only trying to do the right thing – and she likes me!” I can almost imagine him repeating the words of an old Debbie Boone song, “This can’t be wrong when it feels so right.”
Oh, Lord God, open our eyes to the tricks of the Enemy! Give us the wisdom we need to discern between a treasure far above rubies (Prov. 31:10) and a trap. Help us to teach our sons and daughters to be godly. Help us to be parents who set the example.
- A Proverb for Today – Proverbs 4:7 (mindrenewers.com)
“My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments…” – Proverbs 3:1
In order to fully appreciate the first two words of Proverbs 3:1, you need to either be a loving parent or the child of one. I don’t know how else to put it.
But if you are not a parent, or if you have never experienced the love of a caring father, let me see if I can explain the emotion I sense in these opening two words.
I hear begging. I hear pleading. I hear crying.
I can feel the tenseness in the temples. I can feel the tightness in the chest. I can feel the weight on the shoulders that push one down to the floor.
I can feel the pressure put on knees as prayer is being offered up. I can feel the grip on the pen as it’s squeezed mid-sentence, the fingertips turning white as one searches for the right word to pen next.
“My son…” It’s an address used 27 times in Proverbs; three times in this very chapter. They are the words of a parent who has been down the road of life, found the potholes, suffered the pain, and longs for nothing less than his children to avoid unnecessary suffering.
Can you put yourself in that position? Imagine knowing the worst that life has to offer: all of the people out there who want nothing more than to destroy your kids, the most precious people in your life, those gifts from God…and you’ve now got one shot to give them the best advice you know.
“My son!” “My daughter!” Do you have children? Do you ever wish you could know just for once that they were really, truly listening to what you are saying? You pray that they will enjoy long life and peace (v. 2), but the odds are they will forget what you tell them, so you say “tie this around your neck” (v. 3).
And yet, we have the Word of God…
…a letter from our Father…
How often we must break His heart!
Week Two – Chapter Two
Here we are in the second week of our new study (or thinking) through the book of Proverbs, and I am excited to share with you what the Spirit lays on my heart. When the other authors’ schedules clear, you will be enjoying a greater variety of “thought.” But until that happens, I am determined to keep the posts coming on a daily basis, even if I have to write them all.
However, I’m not exactly protesting; I love to read God’s word and share what I find! Every time I sit down with my Bible I learn something. Every time I sit down to write I receive a blessing. Really, it’s not a chore; it’s a joy.
Speaking of determined, the first four verses of Proverbs chapter 2 are full of language that describes someone who is determined to learn. Should Solomon’s son be one that listens to his words and takes his advice to heart, he will be the type of person whose appetite for knowledge and understanding is insatiable. For example, a genuine learner will do the following:
- listen hard to wisdom
- apply his heart to understanding
- cry after knowledge
- call out for understanding
- seek and search, like as for silver or hidden treasure
Sounds like the perfect student, doesn’t it? Do you have that kind of desire to learn? Many people do, and they are usually the doctors, scientists, and entrepreneurs that make us all jealous of their success.
All it takes is determination.
What We Find
But what Solomon says we find when we diligently seek after knowledge is not what the modern mind assumes; as the wise person increases in knowledge and understanding, he better understands the fear of the Lord and the knowledge of God.
Proverbs 2:1-5 – My son, if thou wilt receive my words, and hide my commandments with thee; So that thou incline thine ear unto wisdom, [and] apply thine heart to understanding; Yea, if thou criest after knowledge, [and] liftest up thy voice for understanding; If thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as [for] hid treasures; Then shalt thou understand the fear of the LORD, and find the knowledge of God. (emphasis mine)
There used to be scientists who, when they studied, gained a greater appreciation for the Creator.
“When I was young, I said to God, “God, tell me the mystery of the universe.” But God answered, “That knowledge is reserved for me alone.” So I said, “God, tell me the mystery of the peanut.” Then God said, “Well George, that’s more nearly your size.” And he told me.” – George Washington Carver
These days all we hear about are scientists, etc., who seek to learn only to prove to themselves that there is no God. They miss the point of learning and have no fear of the Lord, much less a greater understanding of the Creator and the mystery of His creation.
If there seems to be a void in your education, you may have been listening to the words of the wrong Solomon. The end result of a search for knowledge and understanding should be anything but atheism.